Perfectionism and the Creative Process

Nothing is good enough.

Too much punctuation

Not enough punctuation.

lowercase adds to the poetry

But looks wrong.

Stop.

Backspace

Not good enough…

Will people want to read this?

Of course not

they don’t care.

Change it so it appeases my

friends*

on social media who I don’t really

Know.

Wait.

Delete.

Distract.

Delay.

Wait for a better idea

something that is profound

that will get a thousand likes and

hundreds of shares.

What do my friends and family

want to hear?

Will they be proud of me?

[no]

Not good enough…

Wait.

why am I trying to appease

everyone else

but me,

the author

poet

writer

[fraud]

Move those words around.

They don’t make sense like that.

[Stupid}

Too many judgments

I can’t catch them all

They’re heavy

I’m

 

falling.

 

 

The weight

 

 

is too great

 

 

 

 

endless.

the pit is endless.

i can’t get back up.

too much self

judgment.

I’m tired.

Too tired

to try again.

 

put down the rope.

 

Her voice is in my head

Like a lighthouse

swinging it’s light

round and round

to bring ships home

to safety.

Put down the rope.

Let go of the judgments.

 

It’s ok

I know you can do it

[artist]

It will be messy

Art is messy

Art is not just for everyone

else.

Art is for you.

Put down the rope

Your hands are raw and bleeding.

There’s no need to be perfect.

[no one is perfect]

No.

No one is perfect.

Time to be messy

Put down the rope

and smear those bloody hands

on your canvas.

Delete the punctuation

do what is unconventional

do what is joyful

do what is creative

for you.

 

one by one

I let the judgments go

and I float

back to the start

the blank page.

open mind

open heart

open soul

 

I rise.

the journey that defies perfectionism

Hello all!

It has been a crazy long time since I have used this blog, so I decided to do a bit of rebranding. To those of you who have been here before, welcome back! To those who are new to my blog, thank you for taking the time to catch a glimpse into my life!

I’ve been doing a lot of work on my perfectionism lately. I love to write, and often I spend days- sometimes weeks- crafting a narrative essay or blog post. This is where I hope to lay that aside. To share my story, be myself, and not hold myself back. This blog is for me, and me alone! Though I am excited to be sharing my story with all of you wonderful readers. An important person in my life recently told me that I am often in a tug-of-war match with myself, my anxiety, my depression, my perfectionism; that I need to put down the rope¬†and just be. So here I am!

The goal will be to post here daily; maybe that will mean I write a sentence, a paragraph, a 5-page essay. Who knows! The creativity is flowing and I am rolling with it.

So, welcome! And thanks for reading.

-K